Fast-forward a few years and here we are-- now the in crowd moms are touting the benefits of these baby carriers and decrying other carriers as poor choices for babies... and I am over here saying "duh'"!
Same goes for breastfeeding. I was the weird one breastfeeding longer than a year, donating milk, cross nursing etc. Now its an in thing... and again I am over here saying "I told you so".
Gentle parenting is another example. When time outs were in- we used "time-ins". I have not sleep trained my kids.. or really any trained--- just let them be the guide. And now opposition to "cry it out" is mounting. Even Dr. Ferber -- the developer of the Ferber method says how he would not do that again. Yet again-- I am over here snuggling my babies and loving on them.
Cloth diapers are another thing... so many people said they were too much work and disgusting and now many of the same people are cloth diaper devotees.
I should be thankful that kids and babies are getting care that is more in line with their needs rather than following what has been done... but to be honest, I am annoyed. This is stuff I have been saying for YEARS and when a popular mom goes and says "I babywear with a ring sling because it is better for their hips" and then all of a sudden other moms are dedicated ring slingers.... and taking popular moms words as gospel. Why are we as women still following the popular moms? What makes a mom part of the in mom group?
It also worries me because what is the next 'in' thing going to be? Tiger Mom stuff? Will everyone abandon this kind of parenting stuff just as quickly? Won't their kids be confused with the back and forth parenting crap?
But I am happy that I have learned not to follow the cool moms and instead do what is best for my children.