It has been well documented that my kidney and I do not get on well- like at all.
This past weekend I was back in the hospital because it was blocked up and infected. Husband was of course working, where else would he be? (Seriously it seems like every time I have a crisis he is at work and just can't get away--- of course it doesn't help that he works an average of 100 hours a week)
I asked around and my sister was able to drive out from Chicago with her kids to watch mine- you know what would have happened if I couldn't find someone to watch them? I would have stayed home or brought them with me because leaving 5 kids home alone is a shitty idea.
When my sister and her kids got here- I had made dinner and written out some basics for her to deal with the kids.
The next day when husband got home she left. Brian was at home with the kids doing support calls (working) in the basement. He had told the kids that they may not go out and play and they could not open the door etc because he was working.
A neighbor kid came over and talked to one of my kids through the window- my child said they could open the door or answer go out because mommy was in the hospital and daddy was working.
Shortly after this a police officer showed up at the door and asked to see my husband- who was working downstairs. He came up and said that they had received a call from DCFS reporting a tip that our children were home alone (WTF)!!! My husband called me fuming.
When I was discharged from the hospital I received a call on my cell from a DCFS case worker to arrange a visit.
The DCFS lady came the next day and talked with my kids and cleared everything up. I am so unbelievably mad. I know who did this. But I am struggling on confronting her- how do I start that conversation?
I understand why she was concerned but to not to verify what actually happened or was happening?? That is a shitty thing to do.
The entire thing makes me so terribly mad. My kids were horrified and scared- Peas cried nearly all night blaming herself. My anxiety went from bad to unbearable.
I have signed out of the hospital against medical advice to be home when we did not have a sitter, my husband had used ALL of his sick time to care for the kids when I was sick.
Instead of being kind and helpful she was mean and spiteful, if she was that concerned about the safety of the kids why did she not verify it? Why did she not offer to help? What she did helps no one, and makes things much more stressful.