b'syata dishamaya

'with the help of heaven'

is a traditional Jewish way of acknowledging that all we do is possible because of God.
I love that. I take way to much for granted, too much that I assume responsibility for instead of giving it over.

as a follow up to one of my posts regarding struggling with forgiveness a wise person told me that God's job is to forgive. It in essence is being self righteous by refusing to forgive ourselves or anyone else. I can forgive, because I have been forgiven so many times over.