My door is unhinged my rope is frayed

I have posted before about Peas being a lot of person in a little body.. she is. A lot.

and am completely baffled at what to do with her.

It is hard to describe even what she does... it is just A LOT.

She pesters Stinky and pesters (Stinky is far from blameless here). When she gets mad or frustrated she hits and throws and bites.

Stinky did not want her near him she objected, she bent his finger back. Then she would not stay on time out for hurting him.

I am exhausted by her. Trying to be optimistic and understanding is great- but just can't right now.