lightning bolt moment

in the past few weeks I have had a number of circumstances that are making me re-evaluate how am living my life and my expectations from the same and from people in it. Today reflecting on all if it I had a realization that I need a make-over. I need to re-do a lot in my life re-evaluate a lot of choices. I can be a better person, a better, friend, a better wife, a better mom that I am being.