headaches

I have been having awful headaches headaches that make me nauseated seriously impacted what I was able to do. These headaches made/make me less of a mother than I want to be. So I asked my doctor about them. I kept a headache diary..I rated them tracked all of it.

His answer: they sound stress/grief related. Fantastic. I am stressed out and grieving.

What is active grieving specifically???what is next passive grief? is that like passive aggressive behavior? Then what? I don't understand. great here comes another headache